Tuesday-May 19, 2009

Ugh....So today Cheri (my Mom) is driving me nuts!!! Did I mention that we moved into a house with my Mom and Dad. Cheri is in one of her "moods". The woman gets into every aspect of our lives. We don't comment on every aspect of her life. My brothers and sister don't mind that she is in all of their business. I on the other hand do. I hate all of the little comments that she makes, from the way I parent to the way I treat my husband, and how he treats our kids. She can't even go to the grocery store without first asking my opinion on what she should buy. Do you know how many times a day she says, "I'll load if you unload". Dinner is a major pain in the butt now too. When I cook dinner, I just cook. I don't ask who eats this and who eats that, and then say your so picky I don't know what to make. If Cheri makes dinner we just eat, we don't complain, we just eat. If I make dinner, I have Cheri over my shoulder the whole time saying "oh your going to make that, or oh your going to do it that way". I have been cooking since I was 11 years old, because Cheri put all the responsibility on my shoulders. I had to be a mother to my little brother and sister. Now I have to be the mother to my Mother. That is why I stopped calling her Mom, because she stopped being MY Mom, and I became HER Mother.